May 20, 2013 | By: A Woman

Murder by the name of Capitalism - Day 371

 

The unpredictability of the mind strike again and today a person lost his mind over 6000 NIS which are equal to something around 1500 USD worth of debt that he was unable to settle with his bank. This led him to make the irrational decision to go back to the bank with a gun and to murder 4 people. SO 5 people were killed today over 1500 USD. Strange things like that can only occur with our "Perfect" Capitalism system that pushes the individuals to act in insane ways where the individual become completely demonized to a point of making decisions that are in no way decisions that the individual would have done otherwise.

 

 

Four dead in Be'er Sheva bank shooting; assailant releases hostage and kills himself

"Israel Police investigating possibility that the assailant, a Jew in his 40s, committed the attack following a dispute with the bank management over a NIS 6,000 overdraft. " (Haaretz)

 

So before you go and blame the poor person for killing 4 people; before you go and judge the person for being insane; before you hate the person for doing such a thing understand one thing - it is not that this man killed 5 people including himself, it is the system that we ourselves have created through our directly and indirectly acceptances and allowances over generations. We sit back and let things happen, always hoping for the best while abdicating our power of actually making the decision to change the capitalistic system to a system that support, protect and honor all lives so that no one would ever lose their mind and kill people over 1500 USD.

 

The unpredictability of the mind was explained in detail in the interview:

Unpredictability of Consciousness (Part 1)

Unpredictability of Consciousness (Part 2)

How does it Begin?

Moving from Unpredictability to Predictability to Self Trust

 

Understand that it isn't an individual case; it isn't rare and it is going to accelerate as the system keeps on pushing the individuals over the edge. We can stop that though, if we really care about Life as much as we say we do. See, the problem is that we say one thing and our actions (or inactions in the case of this world system) says otherwise. We say that we care about life, about people, and yet, we do not care that the lives of the majority in this world is not the life that any of us would like to experience; we say that we care about humans but we do nothing of worth to change the system to a system that would really care, in practical and measurable actions, about all living beings. We feel bad when people get killed by an insane individual that flipped over a debt he couldn't pay off but we do not make sure that no one will ever be in debt but rather have access to all the opportunities and possibilities that we have because we were simply born to the right side of the equation.

 

So - prove that you care and join the Equal Money System Movement that is based on actual care, respect, support and honor of all living beings on earth.

May 18, 2013 | By: A Woman

Children are exposed to Porn sites from age 6 - Day 370

 

Continuing investigating the question: Who is Responsible for our Children's Education?.

 

Please read this article for context: Children access porn sites from age SIX and begin flirting online at aged eight, according to study.

 

The article is based on a study done by Bitdefender, the creator of anti virus software, on more than 19,000 parents worldwide that were asked to fill a survey on what websites the children have access to and what websites the children where blocked by the parents.

The finding shows that almost a quarter of the kids accounted for in the study had at least one social network account at age 12, while 17% were social media users at 10, even though, the permission to participate in a social network require one to be 13 or older.

 

Bitdefender Chief Security Strategist Catalin Cosoi told USA Today: 'Kids nowadays are acting like young adults online — just give them an Internet-connected device, and they will find a way to things parents would like to ban forever.'

 

Many before me had discussed the question: "Who is to Blame" and in most cases, the parents were the ones that were blamed for allowing their children to access internet sites that are in no way supporting or enhancing their natural skills. However, the problem in asking a question such as "who is to blame" is the abdication and shifting responsibility and in this, allowing the problem to continue without directing the problem into a solution by sourcing the root of the problem, correcting it by eradicating that which do not support the evolution of humanity to become a better and effective human beings  and thus keep that which is best for all. Isn't it what Jesus was preaching about: Investigate all things and keep that which is best.

 

So what is the problem?

The problem is an economic system that is driven by profit and to achieve that result, the commoner must be controlled as Noam Chomsky described beautifully:

"...It was also understood by the elites. Emerson once said something about how we're educating them to keep them from our throats. If you don't educate them, what we call "education," they're going to take control -- "they" being what Alexander Hamilton called the "great beast," namely the people. The anti-democratic thrust of opinion in what are called democratic societies is really ferocious. And for good reason. Because the freer the society gets, the more dangerous the great beast becomes and the more you have to be careful to cage it somehow."

Source: Noam Chomsky, David Barsamian (1996) Class Warfare: Interviews with David Barsamian. Monroe, ME: Common Courage Press

 

Within Profit driven system the commoners are not important but rather seen as a tool through which profit can be made and so long as the "civilized" person kept ignorant, the system can flourish and benefit those who pull the strings.

So, how can we blame the parents who were never been trained to be an effective trainers for their children within a system that made sure the parents would not be trained because if they would, we would have seen effective human beings that would have questioned the validation of the system we are currently existing as and would have thus, stand up and change the system to be aligned with what is best for them, their children and humanity as a whole.

 

Within this, How can we blame the Porn industry that producing and marketing the material all over the media? I mean, if you see an opportunity to make money with a product of high demand, wouldn't you do the same if you had the skills and means to do so? I mean, who are the ones that buy or hack this material if not the majority of people that can afford it or with the skills to hack it? and then again, who we are within it if not the ignorant commoners who were never trained with the basic life skills to become an effective human being that understand what is sex, how to use sex effectively and what are the consequences with incorrect use of sex.

And the most important question is - why none of us, as of yet, asked the correct question: How to change the world system to be the most sustainable system that respects Life, Honors Life and protects Life?

 

Understand that once we start asking this question, we would realize what does Self Responsibility really means. We would realize that the system can only sustain itself if we feeding it by our acceptance and allowance. We would realize that we can step out of our controlled ignorance and stand accountable for that which is here. we would realize that we must support the parents to stand as the example every child should have so that we could all evolved effectively instead of Devolving in the disguised of what we call 'evolution'.

 

Photo: The Desteni I Process Lite is a Free online course with buddy support that anyone with an interest in self-improvement, self-help and self-forgiveness can sign up for. Sign up today to start your Journey to Change!<br /><br />www.lite.desteniiprocess.comWe must stop point fingers but instead, take responsibility and correct the system to be the best system it can be; a system that is based on 3 simple principles:

- Give as you would like to receive

- Do unto another as you would like to be done unto you

- Investigate ALL things and keep that which is good for All.

If you are willing to stop blaming everything and everyone but instead, stand accountable and responsible, you must ask yourself the question - How to change the world system to a system that is based on the value of Life that is best for all. Once you ask that question, it means that you also have it in you to see the simplicity of the answer - Investigate the Equal Life Foundation, the Equal Money System and the DIP lite free online course, to become the answer.

 

More about Porn:

Brainwashed Through Porn? (Or how the Porn industry is profiting on your ambivalence)

How to Stop A Porn Addiction

The Dark Side of Reality is in your Mind

Have you ever been caught watching PORN at work?

 

 

 

May 16, 2013 | By: A Woman

Study finds children would not think of overweight person as a potential friend - Day 369

This in another blog within the blog series where I investigate the question: Who is Responsible for our Children's Education?.

 

In todays Daily Mail article - How we start being 'fattist' at four: Study finds children would not think of overweight person as a potential friend  one can find absolutely fascinating study that clearly show that the parents and our society as a whole are simply ineffective trainers for the children in this world. The study shows how ineffective parenting leads to prejudice behaviour of a child already at age 4 and all of that is happening through the example of the parents, their opinions and beliefs (Value system) and/or the TV/Media influences that without parental input, one simply do not know what the child would accept as their value system and whether the value stands in alignment to what is best for the child and humanity as a whole:

 

Here some pointers from the article:

 

"..A study of 126 boys and girls who had just started school showed they were loath to think of an overweight story book character as a potential friend…

 

…The Leeds University researchers said it seems that even very young children have picked up on the prejudice against fat people that pervades society…

 

...Only one of the 43 children read the fat Alfie version of the book chose him as a potential pal..

 

...The results of the study, the first to show that children of such a young age stigmatise those who are fat, were presented at European Congress on Obesity in Liverpool...

 

...He said that with parents of obese children saying their youngsters are already socially isolated at the age of five, such views could underpin weight-related bullying and victimisation...

 

...The professor said that he believes the youngsters are picking up on a prejudice towards obesity that is all around them, from the opinions of their parents to TV shows which ‘ridicule’ the fat...

 

...He added: ‘I think we have an underlying social commentary about weight and morals and that the morality of people is based on their shape...

 

...‘I think that is very powerful and kids are sensitive to it.’...

 

...Professor John Wilding, of the UK Association for the study of Obesity, said: ‘I think it matters because we know that the social stigma associated with weight problems is quite significant...

 

...‘It is reflected in reduced employment opportunities and all sorts of other aspects of life...

 

...‘If these stereotypes are starting in childhood, it is going to be very hard to reverse them...

 

...‘I guess we need to think about how to change that in society.’"

 

It is fascinating that the conclusion is:  "I guess we need to think about how to change that in society" instead of a definite statement indicting: "Till here no further - we must change ourselves by investigating our value system so that we can stand up, correct ourselves and change our contaminated behaviour and thus, stand as an example for our children of what does it really mean to live in integrity and respect towards oneself and each other.
 

The even bigger problem is that no one wants to admit that we, as parents, are brainwashing our children to be the image and likeness of ourselves. I mean, let's do the math - can you honestly state that throughout your day, you have no Thoughts, Reactions and Emotions towards others? Was there a day in your life that you didn't judge, spite or gossiped about another human being? (and here, it does not matter if it was verbally or only in your mind) Is there absolute respect towards ALL human beings in this world within yourself to the extent that every decision that you make is what best for all?

IF you are honest about these questions, it would be fair enough to assume that as of yet, you are not standing as an absolute and perfect example for your children and all of these inner conflicts that you have within yourself, you are passing to your children and they will pass it through to their children. (The sin of the fathers)

 

We train the kids to either become obese by telling them they must finish everything from their plate (please read Finish Everything on your Plate! - Day 355) and we train the children to not like fat people.

 

In the article it was mentioned that obese people are having hard time to find a job and now that we understand that prejudice behaviour starts already in early childhood, there is no wonder since once one that is obese is being interviewed for a job, the interviewer has most likely prejudice opinions about the shape of the interviewee body and as we all know, the judgement and opinions that we form about another is happening in the first 10 Seconds or less. By all means, the quality, integrity and experience of the interviewee is not coming to play when the 'wrong' judgement is being placed upon the interviewee by the brainwashed interviewer.

 

In essence, the article emphasize the consequences of incorrect use of the Natural Learning Ability. When the child learns bad habits such as being prejudice already at age 4, it implies that the parents didn't make sure that the information that the child stored within oneself contains the actual and real meaning of the word/vocabulary/expression. If we teach our children that it is valid to be prejudice from a early age, how can we not see that instead of evolving we are devolving and how can we not see it was always our responsibility and our direct participation in how and who we have become? How can we not see that we pass our sins to our children?

 

What is important to understand form this article is that the problem is much more severe than being prejudice at age 4 - the problem is that we have no awareness as to what we teach our children, we have no awareness as to what our children are picking up from our expression, behaviour and words.

We have never actually investigated our opinions, beliefs, ideas, perceptions that we have created as our value system upon which we live as and the even bigger problem here is that we pass it generation after generation without seeing, realizing and understanding that we pass on invalid value systems through which we created our world and thus, it is no wonder that there is so much hate, suffering and abuse in this world because we have never made sure that our children would become the best that they can be as we have limited them to what and who we are and let's face it - who we are isn't the best for all example as of yet.

 

So it is time to takes things into our hands and start investigating our belief system before it is too late; we must stop the cycle of ineffective production of human beings and instead, become the being that we can be, a being that moves, direct and walk according to that which is best for all. Only then we can ensure that what we show, teach and educate our children would bring the results of a world where we can trust each other, support and cared for each other, a world where we respect ourselves and each other - a world that is best for all living beings. It is up to us, it always has been so would we wait till we reach to a point of no return or would we take responsibility and correct ourselves and change?

May 15, 2013 | By: A Woman

Becoming a Parent of all the Children in this world - Day 368

 

 

Full_ode-to-our-childrenA few days ago, it was the International Mothers Day and these 2 blogs came up online:

Day 379: Motherhood and Brainwashing

Day 301 - A Call to All Mothers

 

If you followed my blogs thus far, you would know that I'm not a mother and that my priority at the moment isn't Motherhood. As for myself, I've walked a process from being extremely possessed within the desire of having a child 5 years ago, to being extremely possessed  and believing that I do not want to be a mother until I got Here - to a point of equilibrium wherein when/if the point is here, I would look at the practicality of it and accordingly make a decision that is best for all.

 

Though, once I read these 2 blogs above I have realized that I am a mother; a mother of all children in this world because I now understand my responsibility as a human being with the ability and means to care-for and support all the children in this world and this is why I have made the commitment to do what is necessary to be done to bring about a world that is best for all and thus within that, best for all the children in this world.

 

When I talk with people that are already parents, there are these typical saying such as: "when you'll be a mother, you'll see things differently" or "You must experience giving birth" or "Only a mother can understand" and I'm sorry to break the News but I don't need to become a mother to value the value of Life and I don't need to become a mother to care about another human being. From my perspective, caring and loving a child only because it came out of me is a limited form of caring and loving because doesn't it make much more sense to be able to care and love any child, even if the child didn't come from your physical body? Doesn't it make sense to care also for a child that is not you own as Equal?

 

So now, I'm asking - if you as mothers understand what Care and Love is - wouldn't you want all children to be cared for and Loved? Now that you are mothers, you understand the bond a mother and a child has and that without this bond, the chances of a child to grow in a supportive environment is low isn't it? so if we do all understand how dependent a baby is on their mother, why are we all sit tight in our family nets instead of making sure that all children has the support that every child need? And that every child has the opportunity to feel safe, considered, cared for and Loved?

 

I'm sure you have realized by now that unless we do something, no one would as nothing within the current world system is trustworthy. The problem is that despite of us understanding that something needs to be done and that the solution wouldn't come from high above, we do nothing because we still hope that somehow, things will get better while the physical reality show us the direct opposite. However, the longer we wait, the more children suffer, the more children separated from their motherly bond, the more children are being abused and so - we cannot wait.

 

So - If you are in a position where your life style allows you to invest an hour or two per day to read all about the possibilities of changing the world to a place that is best for all, please make your time worthwhile and investigate how can YOU be the key, the Mother/Father of all the children in this world. These children are crying and screaming for us to take care of them, as the system failed  them and they have to bear the consequences and as such, they do not have anyone but us. The Equal Money System is the foundation from which Real Love and Care can birth from so let's make a stand and move towards a system that Value Life.

 

Free song and an Eye opener:

May 14, 2013 | By: A Woman

Does your child really have a behaviour disorder? (Part 3) - Day 367

This is a continuation to Does your child really have a behaviour disorder? (Part 1) - Day 363 and

Does your child really have a behaviour disorder? (Part 2) - Day 364

where the main question asked is: Who is Responsible for our Children's Education?

 

In the previous blogs we walked through an example of how innocent playful time with our dogs while the child is observing and integrating the information the child sees, can lead the negative consequences when and as the parent doesn't make sure that the input the child is busy integrating is what is best for the child and within that, that the child actually integrated the information with a correct meaning that is not dependent on one's interpretation through one's mind but rather an integration of the physical reality as what it really is.

 

Unfortunately, the solution isn't as easy or simple within our current world system as the solution require a stable foundation from which we can expand our understanding regarding the relationship between the mind, the physical body and our beingness that at the moment, functions as separated entities yet, from a certain perspective equal as we have accepted and fully allowed the integration between the mind and the physical, the mind and the beingness and we have no idea or awareness of how we even had a free choice within it all.

 

One thing is certain, the solution isn't to label the children with behaviour problems and thus medicate them as this method has proven itself to not be effective or valid. Yes, there are cases where medication is required for a functional living however, in many cases, this can be prevented with a proper education both for the parents and the child. The "solution" of medicating the children benefits mostly the corporation that profit from the ignorance of parents that are misinformed and untrained to be an effective trainer of their children and as the results of the world educational system shows, neither the professional educators are effective in training children with the basic life skills.

 

Within this article: Children play their way to improved concentration one can see alternative treatment for children that where born to a life where their Natural Learning Ability was used ineffectively and/or incorrectly and as a result, have developed attention difficulties which by the medical and psychological industry, were supposed to be treated by Ritalin. The article shows a way to restore the Natural Learning Ability of a child to a level of slowly but surely building the child attention wherein, the child is actively participating in the process of becoming attentive and focus to themselves and their environment through a method called NeroFeedback. However note, this is again a treatment to the problem that has already manifested while a real solution would be to prevent the problem from even occurring.

 

Preventing the problem from occurring can only be established in a world where Corporate Profit is not the directive principle but rather the Value of Life is that would drives us to perfect ourselves and our society wherein Human Rights are practically applied on a global scale. Only then, we can ensure that the education system is what best for the child and within that, providing a support structure for the parents to stand as an example for the child. All of this can be done with the implementation of the Equal Money System which you can read all about it in the following websites:

 

Capitalism vs. Equal Money group on Facebook.

Equal Money Wiki

Economist’s Journey to Life

Marlen Life's Blog

and on YouTube

 

So - if you really and truly care about your child - investigate the possibilities of supporting yourself and your child to be the best that you can be instead of falling into the trap of the pharmaceutical industry that have only one objective in mind - to make profit even it is on the back (health) of your child.

May 13, 2013 | By: A Woman

A process to Self Respect and Integrity - Day 366

Walking the process of Self Respect requires me to go back in time and identify the moment that I've made the decision to disrespect myself. Obviously, it is not an easy task because I made sure to suppress that decision so deep down because otherwise, how could I remain consistent with the lack of self integrity and self respect.

What is clear to me now is that to be able to walk in self respect, I cannot trust my mind even in moments where it seems so convincing to follow the thoughts/imaginations/emotions/feelings that comes up. I have followed my mind so many times and in each time, the illusion reality as future projection never met the physical reality and in this, never actually benefited me in anyway whatsoever.

 

What is interesting was the moment when I realized that I fell into the very same pattern was the moment where I promised myself that I will not follow this path again and instantaneously, in a quantum moment, the same pattern emerged only now, it was different sceneries, different people or in other words, different characters. When I investigated the point, I saw that the same had happened throughout my life wherein in one moment I let go of one point, and so suddenly and unexpectedly, a new point emerged, in a quantum time although it is not a 'new' point per say, it just presented itself as a new point while all along, it was just the same ole pattern repeating itself.

 

I see now the mechanics of how the pattern that I was working with was never released unconditionally but instead, mutated itself in a disguised so that it would be difficult to identify and once I've seen that I'm busy generating the energy that this pattern consists of, I decided to stop and write and to for once and for all, accept and allow myself to walk myself to self respect by letting this pattern go unconditionally, a pattern that I've lived as, so long as I can remember myself.

 

I forgive myself that I've accepted and allowed myself to disrespect myself by accepting and allowing myself to follow my mind and in this, the thoughts, emotions and feelings that I programmed in my flesh throughout my life. In this, I forgive myself that I've NOT accepted and allowed myself to realize that I was the one who decided to give power to these thoughts, emotions and feelings that I've programmed within myself and within that, also installed the program to "forget" that I was the one who have programmed myself in disrespect or integrity but in this, I now see, realize and understand that I also created myself a door to walk through and step out of this self created cycle through standing up in clarity, self trust, self honesty, respect and integrity.

 

I forgive myself that I've accepted and allowed myself to disrespect myself by following the repeating thoughts, emotions and feelings that I've placed inside myself and in this, I forgive myself that I've accepted and allowed myself to believe my own self programmed thoughts, emotions and feelings even though the physical reality contradicted and invalidated any of the thoughts, emotions and feelings that came up from within me without my directive will.

 

I forgive myself that I've NOT accepted and allowed myself to STOP the very moment a thought comes up, a thought that I already knows where it would lead me and who I would become once I decide to follow the thought. In this, I forgive myself that I've accepted and allowed myself to loop again and again based on one single thought that comes up in cycles of times. However within this, I forgive myself that I've accepted and allowed myself to judge myself for following the thought that can only lead to a destructive patterns, after I've seen the consequences of following the thought and within that, I have not accepted and allowed myself to correct the pattern because I was busy judging myself for falling, not realizing that in the very moment I accepted and allowed the judgement, was the moment where I've upgraded my own self programming and so, created a new form of thought as justification and excuses for why it is valid to access the pattern again. Thus, I forgive myself for NOT accepting and allowing myself to humble myself in moments I realize that I have fallen which from there I am able to stand up, investigate and correct myself instead of judging myself and in the judgement, quantumly upgrade the programming to snick in again without my direct awareness.

 

I thus Commit myself to identify the thoughts that had led me to destructive repetitive patterns and accordingly, when and as a thought comes up, I stop, I laugh about it and move on while breathing myself out of the pattern. In this, I commit myself to NOT accept and allow myself to judge myself when the pattern emerge but to instead, change my starting point, align myself, learn and correct myself. I see, realize and understand that it took me decays to program patterns so perfectly within and as myself and therefore, removing patterns requires the same consistent it took me to program patterns from the get go and thus, all I must do is stick to my decision of respecting myself, develop my integrity by stopping my participation with destructive patterns that do not support myself.

 

I commit myself to NOT accept and allow myself to upgrade the pattern but to instead remove the pattern through consistent application of Stopping participation and returning to physical breathing. I now see, realize and understand the extent of repetitive patterns that are layered within me and so I see now how I was the one who directly accepted and allowed my own creation of repetitive patterns as integral part of my self definition and so, I make the commitment to assist and support myself no matter how long it will take till I stop the participation with repetitive patterns that do not support me or others.

May 12, 2013 | By: A Woman

A year or writing - Day 365

Full_the-importance-of-writingIf anyone would have told me that I would, in some time in the future, be writing in English or even in Hebrew, for more than a year, every day, or almost every day, I would have said to them that they are crazy and there is no way in hell that I would be able to write so much.

Writing for me isn't something that came naturally, I was never known as a writer or someone who likes reading/writing but, here I am, writing for 365 days my journey to Life blogs.

 

I always had resistance to write, resistance to read, resistance to push beyond my accepted limitation because from my perspective, if I could have achieved something easily, than there is no point in push myself or to try harder to perfect the results. In my educational years, as long as everything came naturally and easy for me, I was the best that I could be and the moment things started to be hard, I automatically gave up on myself so that I won't have to face bad results. Little did I understand that everything was easy for me so long as my vocabulary was sufficient enough to be able to express myself but as I grow up, my vocabulary dropped in comparison to those with excellent vocabulary and because the problem was not understood, my solution was to drop out from everything that is challenging and to only walk the points that I can easily excel in.

 

But than came Desteni and I couldn't use my excuses of self limitation because I started to know better and I could only do that through reading and writing. As I've said many times before, this process that we are waling doesn't include any form of quick fix, there is no easy way out - it is a challenge, it takes a lot of self will and determination, it takes time and patience but today I can stand and say that if one dare oneself, one is able push through one's accepted limitations and to in fact expand oneself, one's understanding of oneself, of this world and human behaviour overall through the gift of writing. This is also why I'm so grateful I have people who walk this path with me as we encourage each other to break through the self created limitations and so, support not only ourselves but each other as a group.

 

Recently I pushed through my belief that I'm too old to learn new words and to improve my writing skills in English and I was astound to realize how easy and fun it can be to learn new words and actually integrate the words into my physical body so it can actually stay there for me to easily recall the words when I want to and with an awesome technology that is based also on the principle of Writing as a physical integration, I am now able to support myself in expanding my vocabulary and so, slowly but surely communicate and express myself in ways I wouldn't imagine possible for me.

 

Alright, so this is my yearly report of writing myself to freedom and I'll continue tomorrow with the question: Who is Responsible for our Children's Education?